A few months ago I requested via my cover picture on Facebook, that the four women posting lies and abuse about me, remove their bullying posts about me and get the hell out of my life. ….

They laughed at my request,  mocked and continued with their abuse…….

So I came here and suddenly they all had new ‘act innocent’ WordPress accounts and we’re instantly trying to hide what they have spent the last two years doing.


This is another of their friends accounts previously closed down because it was abusive. But still with dribble posted on tumblr.

Within the first month of me being here one of their abusive accounts was closed down by WordPress after some 20-30 photographs stolen from me and used to  degrade me were removed. This account was owned by Lynn Saucier. Who now posts under m&m.


Yesterday I pointed out that another of my harassers accounts, rather than actually prove me a bully actually proved herself to be and it seems congratulations is in order because for the first time since she made me aware of her existence she actually did something right, so well done Alison Lambell for closing down your page full of abuse and lies about me! Ally still posts under ally1lakeside and allabouteve16.


Obviously I urge you to remember that you shouldn’t for one second doubt that I have screen shots of every single post contained within both of these accounts. Just incase you were tempted to tell porky pies….

Lynn however still posts feeble abuse on tumblr about myself and my friends

Gale molinari still has this abusive WordPress page.

And Lavin still has her abusive bullying page whilst reinventing herself. …..erm under the same name?????

And round and round they go…..making themselves look worse and worse as they run quickly out of excuses…..


Endless posts and photos repeatedly removed from numerous fake Facebook accounts.

Endless fake Facebook accounts closed down and round and round they go…….

But why…….well watch this space because I am by far their first target and the next chapter of my blog will be looking at another victim of these bullies abuse.

I almost forgot this other one of Ann Lavins set up to harass and defame someone.

Does size matter?

A majority of my friends are larger than myself. My mum is a big lady. These are people I care about and from my point of view size should not matter.  Equally there is nothing wrong with being small and so long as you are happy and healthy it should not be an issue.

Some however will use any excuse to hurt others and as our size is the first thing people see it is often the focus of abusive name calling and bullying.

Here I have some examples of people being bullied with insulting name calling about their size. These are screen shot taken by myself whilst collecting evidence of harassment as requested by the police.


This first screen shot looks like someone fighting for the rights of larger ladies but next you will see this lady and her friends true thoughts on other people.


This Suzie Godiva account is or rather was a fake account originally set up by Gale Molinari.  Her and her friends used it to daily insult me and here you see them attacking a friend, who is a large lady, just because she told them they were wrong in the way they were treating me.


So she pretends on this fake account that she is a ‘high class fantasy model that works for an elite modeling agency that has such exclusive clientele that they need not advertise’. The four women involved in this harassment are all also large ladies.


This post goes the complete opposite way and is an insult intended to cause me upset.


More insults directed now at a friend of mine who defended me against their abuse. My apparent ‘going after’ her involved her joining my group and being told to clear off as soon as it became obvious that she was a troll intending to cause trouble.


And oh look there’s Gale herself insulting me again!


Oh and here’s her oldest bestest pal Ann Lavin posing as none other than Marilyn Monrow whilst claiming she is a real person. ‘Anorexic little runt’…… who should be locked up in a nonexistent sex club/shop. And the reason for this onslaught of abuse is my apparent bullying her by naming her after months of abuse from her fake account. …… and as for my husband sex chatting her pmsl……I read the messages she sent to him and the first thing he spoke about was his wife and pet parrots! If that’s her idea of sex chat I don’t think I’ll be grabbing the divorce papers just yet…..

In the words of Gale herself. ….bullying people for how they look is being a coward and belongs in the playground!

However bullies tell lies and as with these ones they accuse their victims of doing exactly what they themselves are doing.


And so the campaign began

Screenshot_2014-10-08-12-42-07-1I had them all blocked on Facebook so they chase me over to YouTube and twitter.

I had already by this stage had to close down my jewellery shop on Facebook and my eBay shop . Now I had to make my YouTube and twitter accounts private too.


And all the while they were doing this they were at the same time accusing me of stalking and bullying them. I had been silent to them for a while and was sure they’d eventually get bored.  Especially as one of them in the UK had now also been issued a police warning.

Instead they just changed tactics.

I will explain more in detail in future with regards to the police action and UK harassers when I am certain it will not effect any possible future legal action. For the time being I will concentrate on the ones in America who were doing this. THATS DONE NOW I AM EXERCISING MY RITE TO FREEDOM OF SPEECH…….


taste the medicine

So only last night I reblogged an interesting post about how stalkers will always repeat themselves and low and behold they are back once more breaching copyright laws by stealing photographs of me for the purpose of slandering me…….again……


Well for the first time I would like to follow ‘your’ God’s teaching of an eye for an eye. You have been doing this to me for almost two years,  now it is your turn.

I am proud to introduce my stalkers….Linda and Gale The true faces of cyber bullies And the woman who claims my husband chased her For her curves……..


This is what gale was busy posting whilst normal people were grieving the loss of a friend that day (ref stalking pages)


Who stalking who exactly?




Poke poke poke.
Get this Lynn I do not care that you breath. I do not care that you lie. I do however find it sad that your life is so empty that still you scrap around the edges of my life sniffing for attention.
I do not care. You are worthless.  I have no sympathy nor hatred.  I am not entertained by your pathetic childish behaviour.
Again the only advise I can offer you is to get help!

Last times advice still stands


Changing your profile picture does NOT make me a liar

And so to prove me wrong you make my hands your profile picture. …….interesting. ……


And the notifications again. ….



Now gale why would you be winding Linda up and encouraging her. …….

2 years today


Two years ago today I took this picture of New York skyline.

I had just arrived in America for the first time and the catfish I went to meet had made promises of a great adventure.

This catfish didn’t avoid skype nor calls nor did they look different from their photographs. But their true intentions certainly did not have anything to do with what they had portrayed to me.

This catfish was my friend but wasn’t.  I could trust her……but I couldn’t.  She listened with all sympathy to my worries but was not sympathetic.

This catfish was a liar and a very good one at that.  A cheat and untrustworthy with a complete lack of empathy.  But she could hide those things like a pro.

My memories of America are not great. I can not recall one single thing that would beckon me to return. This catfish had no intention of showing me her country nor anything else much other than her living room and works office.

The catfish had a husband who offered to take my husband shooting but catfish wouldn’t allow it.

Her husband wanted to come for a meal with us and I wanted to treat him for allowing us to stay in his home but the catfish wouldn’t allow it. He was shut out completely the whole time and was openly upset by this.

You see the catfish wasn’t interested in her husbands feelings.  Nor did she care much for our husbands to spend any time together. The catfish wasn’t at all interested in being my friend nor us having a holiday in America.

This catfish wanted one thing and one thing alone. ……. my life! She wanted my future,  my home, my job, my pet but mostly she wanted my husband. …..

She wanted everything I had spent my life working for and this catfish was as sneaky devious and evil as they come.

She risked my health for a cheap frill. And when the mask slipped and I saw the real catfish she could no longer hide the callous evil that hid behind the face of innocence that the mask provided.
Contempt. Hatred.  Bitterness consumes the catfish I met two years ago today in New York.

Jealousy that I still have everything she wanted to take away. Everything she wanted for herself.

And I left her behind.  Walked away and I hold my head high that I may have been stupid but I did no wrong.

Catfish will never have what she wanted from me because to get what I have you have to work for it and work hard for many years. You have to be honest and loyal and trustworthy.

Fake will never be reality…..
Wrong will never be right…….
Lies will never be true…….